Hampton has lost another legend this year, Margaret Haraghey, in the 83rd year of her life. Born and raised in Hartford’s north end, Margaret worked in a supervisory capacity for nearly thirty years at Southern New England Telephone Company, where she met and married Harold, the love of her life, who predeceased her. The couple came to Hampton in 1979. Margaret had no political ambitions prior to her retirement. One might say that politics found Margaret, and after discovering her, wouldn’t let her go.
Margaret filled many roles at Town Hall. She served in every capacity at the polling place, eventually becoming Assistant to the Registrar, Deputy Registrar and the Republican Registrar of Voters. She was appointed to the town’s original Board of Finance and served on its Personnel Committee. She clerked for the Inland Wetlands & Watercourses Agency for years, keeping residents apprised of applications and permits in the Hampton Gazette, and when First Selectman Walt Stone noticed her clerical competencies, and her service on the Republican Town Committee, which she was a member of for many years, he offered her the position of Administrative Assistant in 1993, which she held for eight years. In this role, she was the friendly face of the Board of Selectmen, wrote the First Selectman’s monthly column in the Gazette and learned the various responsibilities of the Town’s Chief Official. This experience gave her the knowledge, the skills, and the confidence that led to her legendary status: in 2001, Margaret was the first female to become First Selectwoman in Hampton’s history. She was re-elected to a second term, unopposed both times.
Much was accomplished during her tenure. She spearheaded a comprehensive review of personnel policies, including items such as wages, pay schedules, procedures for raises, medical insurance, and work-place rules, eventually publishing the Town of Hampton Personnel Policies. Ever respectful of town employees and officials, she also established a retirement program. She worked on coordinating Transfer Station needs with Scotland officials, searched for grant opportunities for town improvements which were subsequently realized, and started the monthly column “First Selecting”.
Margaret took office during very challenging financial times, when national, state and local economies were stressed due to the stock market crash of 2000 and the catastrophic consequences of September 11. Yet the General Government portion of the town budget was reduced during each of Margaret’s years as First Selectwoman, and upon her retirement, the bottom line was still lower than when she assumed the office.
Margaret also established a committee to research options when Parish Hill High School’s accreditation was threatened and tri-town residents were facing a $30 million proposal to build a new school. She steered us through this divisive, emotionally charged era with fairness and facts, and above all grace, and later was appointed to the Strategic Planning Group of local and state educational officials charged with resolving issues at the district school, which was, in the end, fully accredited.
Margaret’s contributions to the town extended beyond Town Hall. She served on the Gazette’s Editorial Board for twelve years, most of the time as Treasurer, on the Fletcher Memorial Library Board, and for many years as its Chairman, and as a member of the Senior’s Club, most recently as Chairman of their Board of Directors. She unfailingly volunteered to nearly every organization in town, providing homemade baked goods for fundraisers, assembling sandwiches for the Annual Grinder Sale, obtaining a license to supervise the Memorial Day Barbecue.
In 2017, Margaret and Harold were named Citizens of the Year, Harold, who Margaret referred to as “the wind beneath my wings”, for serving as Constable and Wetlands Enforcement Officer, assisting at the Transfer Station, and volunteering whenever a need arose; and Margaret for everything listed here. Her colleagues were eager to recommend her:
“Jim Rodriguez and I served as Selectmen with Margaret…a dedicated and hard-working woman who knew her town and was willing to put time and effort into improving it,” Tony Romano recalled. “Her organizational skills were outstanding. Margaret always did her homework, researching, sending surveys”, and soliciting public input.
“Margaret’s knowledge of the details of the Town’s finances was invaluable. I could not be more grateful for her experience and wise counsel,” said the Board of Finance’s first Chairman, Rheo Brouillard; and fellow board member Penny Newbury added, “Her professional experience in finance and budgeting was extremely useful in helping other members navigate the sometimes complex and interconnected fiscal reports and requirements of both the administration and the two education budgets.”
“What impressed me most was her knowledge of the workings of Hampton, knowing what needed to be done in order for the Town to operate properly. Margaret only provided information when needed, and it usually was when we were at an impasse,” former Gazette Chairman Jimmy Halloran said, characterizing her ideas as “just what we need.”
“She will focus on the library issues at hand, taking quite seriously whatever is up for discussion, offering many pragmatic suggestions,” said former Library Board Chairman Anne Christie.
That’s the thing with Margaret – which every organization she has ever served with has missed and will miss the most. She was an incredible problem-solver. Listened to the perspectives of everyone, summarized the issue, and then offered multiple, practical solutions. And she was a wonderful neighbor. A dry sense of humor, a ready smile, she would always inquire after your family, genuinely listen, genuinely care, genuinely commiserate in troubling times, and genuinely celebrate in good ones.
Our condolences to Margaret’s family, and to her many, many friends.
Donations in Margaret’s honor may be made to the Hampton Fire Department.